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mycrackers
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 Posted - 11/05/2014 : 22:20:53
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I am deeply hurting in romance from a crushing blow to my trust.
QUESTION: Is there a balance that needs to exist between love and trust in interdependent relationships?
HISTORY: What if, someone you love romantically, verbally attacks through fear that your nontraditional core beliefs may drive you away from them, conjecturing irrational practices (like "going into a trance" and "getting brain washed", when you had answered them that you listen to music and meditate.)?
HYPOTHESIS: Is it possible to have a fully trusting romantic relationship with an "adult child"?
ARGUMENT: Is it possible for the "adult" in the romantic relationship with the "adult-child" to become mature enough not to feel their trust has been destroyed and deeply personally hurt by childish behaviors.
Could/should the "adult" become capable of unconditionally trusting in the "adult-child's" higher nature?
...Even to the point of not being hurt by their current irrational behavior?
CONCLUSION: Some aspects of self may not be possible to fully share except in an "Adult" to "Adult" relationship.
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| stigmastomper
Super Incredible Member (10000+ posts)
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Posted - 11/06/2014 : 10:44:35
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hi my crackers.
i dont know the answer to your question
but i like very much how you spoke
question,hypothesis, argument,history ,conclusion.
i will try to learn from the way you expresed your self
welcome to my therapy
i love you my freind as a freind [anything else would be improper]
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| fleurette
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Posted - 11/06/2014 : 18:37:22
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Hi my crackers,
Welcome to mytherapy. I think that an adult is capable of handling verbal attacks from the adult child only if they want and understand that is the type of romantic relationship that they are forming.
Many grown people do not progress to the maturity of an adult and think in superficial or simplistic terms.
I am sorry to hear about your hurts in the romantic department and I hope that your heart heals as quickly as possible.
Wishing you all the best, |
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| Rold50
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Posted - 11/13/2014 : 20:08:34
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fleurette is right.  |
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