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keira
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 Posted - 06/02/2007 : 11:22:11
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i am a 48 year old woman going though a horrendous situation which violates every human right . i am being manipulated and a victim of cohersion and am being controlled by fear. i am berated ridiculed and feel ostrasized from society. i have suffered this for five years 24 hrs a day. a few weeks ago i was taken into hospital for severe trauma but got returned to same situation, i recently tried to end my life as i could not endure any more trauma and pain and felt so demoralised but was found and took to intensive care and got put on life support and got returned again to same situation. i have not got the strength or endurance for any more pain in this inhumane situation. and am in need of desperate help . can any one please restore my faith in humanity and get me to a place where i can find peace and safety in order to be able to have some form of a life |
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| EmergingArtist
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| Niney
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Posted - 06/02/2007 : 21:22:07
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Sounds to me like you need to find a safe house for women and a really good doctor and counsellor. You obviously are in desperate need of expert professional help and need to get out of the situation you are in. Since I don't know the specifics, I can just say that most communities have places where women can go if they are in danger. Please find some professional help.
Niney
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| HST_RIP
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Posted - 06/03/2007 : 02:15:20
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You are the only one who can help yourself it seems. Niney is right get yourself out of the situation, safe house and counselling, find a good doc you trust and start living for something other than fear and blackness and the lure of sleep.
I wish I had some magic words but in the end, you have to do most if not all of the work, and I know that's a bummer but if you want to live than live and if you want to change than make some changes. It's so hard asking for help especially when you feel powerless but you must act, call a safe house, call a help line who can put you in touch with community resources. You're not going to get the help you need at the hospital, but you can get that help through community mental health or social services if you're being abused.
Sincerely
Dr. Gonzo
Zeal in suspicion has no merit.
A blind judge doesn't serve the people.
More terrible than mistaking an enemy for a friend
is the haste to mistake a friend for an enemy.
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| e-pea
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Posted - 06/03/2007 : 05:01:29
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I don't know where you live but safe houses in my city will often move heaven and earth to get the girl safely housed with them and take care of any issues she has doing that.
If you need to leave, don't announce it. Just wait until you are alone and walk out the door. If nothing means anything to you, take as little as you need. If you have to pack, pack what you can but nothing that will slow you down. You can get all that back later.
If you're afraid to go alone, call the police and they will escort you to safety and keep any danger from you.
if you have people you trust, now is the time to call them. If not, there are no loose ends left to tie up and you can leave.
if someone is hurting you, it won't get better, they won't get nicer and you can't change them. Trust me. You just can't. They won't change. The only thing that will stop it is to leave as quickly as possible.
We're here for you. You can talk here any time you like. But for right now, make sure you get somewhere safe.
love.. pea
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